Life Incidents

 Yes! They’ve made me stronger!

Author: Ishwarya J

Rewinding the years that have passed, it definitely feels that life isn’t that simple as you think.

I second all the thoughts that would be running on your mind right now because most of us would have faced a million complications to reach a settling point.

To put it across in a better way; this happened way back when I was in my eleventh grade where my world only was books and people identified me only with “them”. I was very bold and proactive in whatever I did. Probably because of the similar ambiance in my school. Nevertheless, we know situations are never the same and you’d might have to face things you wouldn’t think would be happening with you.

And this was the worse time I’ve ever been through.

The eleventh grade was a totally new atmosphere to me as I was from a girls school and never experienced coeducational life before. So, I basically had the same mindset as in school but this didn’t work out as people in my class mistook me by commenting  on my way of  being an active part in the class room sessions. Another strong reason was that , I never really found the need to interact with the guys in my class  not because I wasn’t used to it or something but, it  was my last priority. But this lead some people to think that I portrayed attitude.

 They knew that they were judging me in the wrong way ; just because my teachers interacted with me and liked me more. It would have been better if “only” they had such thoughts against me but that didn’t happen.
They started leading other people also into their way and portrayed me as the most ignorable person in my class. There were situations where I was left all alone clueless about any celebration or any other thing that would be happening and this was the time I saw hell because I had to concentrate on my academics parallely overhearing all the whispers around me. Sometimes, I even had to write my class tests outside my class on a bench, totally isolated from my class. The only thought that played constantly on my mind was to get out of the college and I Looked forward to the last day .

 I really turned to be stronger after those two years but I really wanted better situations in my graduation life and fortunately  I had every person supporting me in every step that I took in my college. Later, I was interviewed for the official literary club in my college and now I am the joint secretary for it  and this has totally brought a different positive change in my life.

The only thing that has to be noticed is that I’ve never changed after my twelfth grade and I was the same even when I joined college so, it were the situations that made me realize the strengths that I had and reflected that I could manage things independently.

So, my advice to you is that you may get offended by the unexpected situations wrapping you up, but that’s the time where you will really start living for yourself probably doing much better than the usual!