8 ways to face criticism

✍ SAUMYA MEHRA

“Criticism is something you can easily avoid by saying nothing,

 doing nothing, and being nothing.”

-Aristotle

The ability to face criticism is how much you have grown up . And now its time to take a step ahead and let us grow up

·      Understand that why people are criticizing you

People generally criticize two kinds of people the one who are better than them and second the one who are loved by them and your loved ones wants you to accept that criticism as a suggestion and just make a little change. And the first ones do not need to be concerned so just ignore them .

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·      Understand that every successful person is criticized-

The person who is not doing anything why would people like to see that person and a talk about it will be quite boring. People need spicy matters to talk that is why you are being Chosen by them as a topic. And there is no success without criticism. Success does not mean career success . Success could be anywhere ,anything you commence or target to do. And if you want things to happen you will be criticized by people.

·      Stay away from people who always criticize-

Some people has habit of criticizing other just to get themselves higher than other by putting others down because they have the only option to get higher. So just stay away from these kind of people because if may badly affect your confidence and your positive attitude about yourself .

·      Understand that it is human nature to judge-

Each and every individual judges other but the difference is the frequency .some people judge each and everyone all the time and some people are less judgmental. So its okay everyone is being judged this is another way to ignore.

·      Do not respond is a calm response-

Whenever some tries to criticism you . Just take a deep breathe and ignore that criticism for that time . Just do not reply . Ignorance would be a great reply to this  . Its like you are not taking that criticism ,its like you are not believing in that criticism. Just make a habit of doing this and after sometime you will surely know the flow. And the great response to the criticism will be your success your goal so achieve it enthusiastically and this will be the big response .

·      Understand the criticism-

Just find the criticism is good or bad . It will be good if said to you directly in a suggestive way and bad if you are criticised sarcastically with wrong intention of putting you down. And also while having a fight someone is criticising you ,that criticism could not be true so you need to ignore that . Just put the suggestive criticism and try to put a change in yourself only when that particular quality is troubling you again and again. Because life is only about making yourself happy .

·      Make a list of criticism you are facing-

If you are over concerned with the criticisms you are facing and these are lowering your confidence and your decisions .Then just make a list of criticisms you are having right now and one by one prove them wrong by actions not by saying I am not like this and that . Everyone believes in actions then words so Just prove it you are not .

·      Do not criticise others –

Just never criticise others. Otherwise you are going to have criticism . Law of karma works. The things you will do with others, you will get the same for yourself.

Some people just stop doing things just because of criticisms .  So Just forget about the criticism and think about the same people talking when you are successful . 

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