5 Positive Way to stay positive in difficult situations

✍Sharavani Prabhudesai

“Every life has some trouble; when you worry you make it double”

– Bobby McFerrin

Always remember, your situation is not the worst. Even though you are going through tough time, you will surely overcome this situation. Life is fascinating and stunning with full of surprises may be positive or negative. It depends upon you how you accept the fact.

When you feel that everything is going good, a point comes when something bad or terrible happens.  There are ways to live these unforeseen circumstances. You can make through the situation, you can come out stronger than ever provided you trust yourself.

Everyone has the ability to turn the negative situation into positive one.

"Sometimes when you're devastated by a situation or  when you're in the darkest of darkness  that's when your priorities are reordered."

Please read this story that will change your way of thinking.

A young woman was sitting on her dining table, upset and distressed.

Just few moments ago, she received a call from her family members saying that, they would visit her place for Thanks Giving the next day.

 She was not  in a position to celebrate Thanks Giving both mentally and financially and the reason was  she had to pay the taxes, she had lots of house work to do and many other indescribable problems.

So thinking about how to overcome this by sitting near the window, she saw her little princess was scribbling something into her notebook. When the young lady asked her daughter about this, she replied,

“Our teacher has asked us to write a paragraph on “Negative Thanks giving” for homework today.” She has told to write down the things that we are thankful for, things those make us feel not so good, but turn out to be good after all.

With eagerness, her mother peeped into the book, and was surprised to see what her daughter had written. She wrote,
“I’m thankful  for my semester Exams, because that means school is almost over.
I’m thankful for unsavory medicines, because it helps me feel better.
I’m thankful to alarm clocks as they wake me up, because it means I’m still alive.”
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It then dawned on the mother, that she had a lot of things to be thankful for!
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She thought again…
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She had to pay taxes but that meant she was fortunate enough to be employed. She had house-work to do but that meant she had her own home to live in.
She had to cook for her family for Thanks giving but that meant she had a family with whom she could celebrate.
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Moral:
Look at the  better part of life today and make your  each a great day"

So, always be positive and end the panic then and there.

Below are 5 ways to live above the most unfortunate situations

1)      Have faith in you.

2)      Cultivate and live in  a positive environment

3)      Meditate

4)      Have Patience

5)      Stop focusing on stressors

Even this situation will change as the time changes. Remember, the only change that is constant is change.