THE BACKBONE OF THE FAMILY:HOUSEWIFE

AUTHOR : TANYA PAUL

"She's just a Housewife" a line we usually hear from people . But is the housewife title a 'just' for them ?

I am proud to say that my mother is one of the housewife's , because she is not just the one who stays inside the house , instead I would prefer saying that she is the homemaker,she made that simple house a home and I wonder if any of us could have achieved the positions we are on today if she wouldn't have sacrificed the things she did , for us .

 

So let's start discuss about the chores, routines of housewives and our negligent attitude towards them , so that from next time we look at them in a more appreciable way , the way in which they really deserve to be looked at .

And for all the thing they do , what do they get in return ? 

Our ignorant attitude and negligence ?

Is this what they deserve?

She gives her 100% to the family and as returns  she expects only the support of her family members, to make her feel loved , but most of us  fail to provide her that feeling. 

 

Even the job routines give you a day or two off in a week , even the job routines give you festive holidays but a housewife ? ... ... .without complaining do her chores each day and night,every year.

Even the job routines have a particular hours shift , but she?  .... on the other hand keeps on doing her chores from early morning to late at night.

Even the jobs offer money for what work we do but what does she get it return ? 

Financial dependency on other members for every ounce of money she spends ? What about her desires , her wishes ?

I don't know how many of you will get affected with this article or already know the importance of those super women in our lives .

 But one thing which I am sure about is that if not for her , Our life wouldn't be sailing as smooth as it is sailing now .She is someone who takes all the problems on her and makes sure that we are happy , from making us meals with love to taking care of our health . From managing our  things and stuff to making sure the house is clean . From supporting us in every step to being the backbone in our lives .

And I advice all the housewife's to make them feel your importance, stop being afraid and voice your opinions , 

If someone is not valuing your efforts then stop doing the efforts for a while and let them realize themselves how important you are .

I suggest ... for all family member, keep to try following lines.....

All the people out there in the society to at least make them feel loved .

 

Sit with them , instead of talking about yourself every time.

Talk with her about her feeling, complains, difficulties, it will give her great satisfaction.

Tell them how much lucky you are to have them ,because this is the least we can do for them.

Author - Tanya Paul