WHO IS THAT ONE PERSON

WHO IS THAT “ONE” PERSON? 

AUTHOR: ISHWARYA 

We often mistake people to be very trustworthy in almost all the cases, but I guess there could be many cases where you would have regretted at one point for meeting that person and still there would be equal chances of believing the others who come into your life with the same trust. It’s natural that we repeat the mistake of trusting the loyalty of people over and over again. But, this has to be carefully thought of when you are choosing either you’re partner for life or a partner at work.

DECIDING FACTORS:

 Factor 1: JUST DO N’T go by the looks of the person because looks might be deceiving; all the people who look innocent or seem decent might as well take chances of deceiving you in a witty way.

So, “DO NOT  JUDGE  A  BOOK  BY  IT ’S COVER”.

Factor 2: SMARTNESS is what counts when you are trying to deal with the other person because trusting that person blindly simply means giving a chance to ruin your life. So, observing the other person’s behavior in your presence as well absence is crucial for choosing him as your partner.

Factor 3: TRUST is what that comes into picture when you are selecting your life partner or a partner at work. No relationship is going to stand forever without trust. So, in case if your taking up partnership its necessary for the trust to be built on both sides so, be careful while you trust someone because distrust leads to destruction of your life.

 Factor 4: FANTASY; most of the times we assume life to be fantasizing and think that the person whom we are going make our partner is the best and there no possibilities for him to go against them which is actually nothing but being foolish. So, this attitude should change and it’s necessary to get smarter while choosing your partner because in case of choosing your work partner you may go through a lot of political ambiguities so being smart enough to counter the other persons move is very essential.    

Generally, we find people settling on the wrong choices for which they tend to repent later on if only they could take the above points into consideration the could probably see better changes.

Also,

A “life partner’’ is the only one whom we get to choose with all the freedom to be more precise, whole heartedly and also, the one with whom we would have imagined the rest of our life. There might be situations that might make  either of you’ll  feel unworthy to take the relationship further but taking decisions impulsively or indignantly is not a perfect solution at all. Looking at one another’s perspectives is what we fail to do many of the times and give way to ruining our own lives.

I think it it’s just not wrong to think from the place of the person you’ve loved and consider if  his/her feelings are  either valid or invalid rather than pre-assuming or pre-anticipating the situations.

If this makes sense to you, replay it on your mind  before  you  even  start  thinking of anything!